The Western Catholic Reporter covered this story three weeks ago, then I blogged it last week, and now the Globe and Mail picks it up. (Not that I'm suggesting a causal connection.)
A woman in London, Ont., wants the Ontario Court of Appeal to recognize her as the third parent of a boy she's raising with her lesbian partner.
The application, if allowed, would be believed to mark the first time in Canada a child would legally have more than two parents, and would fundamentally change the definition of the word "family."
The biological father and mother and her female partner must remain anonymous because of a court ruling protecting their identities.
"The family has evolved over the years in a way that the law should recognize the reality of this little boy," said the father's lawyer, Alfred Mamo, "his reality being that he's got two mothers and a father with whom he thrives. They all want this for their son."
That's the biological father's lawyer talking, not the lawyer for one of the women involved. That the father thinks it's fine for his son to have two lesbians for “mothers” speaks powerfully against permitting unrestricted artificial insemination. (But maybe that's just me.)
The request was rejected by a lower court, but the applicant launched the inevitable appeal.
The applicant appealed, arguing that she was in a special situation because same-sex couples require assisted human reproduction.
So if the law does not allow for three parents, it is a violation of the Charter of Rights and Freedoms guarantee of equality, she argued.
Her quarrel, of course, is not with Canadian law; it's with nature and the One who made nature.
The application is being challenged by, among others, the Alliance for Marriage and the Family, representing several Christian and pro-family groups.
"Our position is that under family law in Canada, children can only have two parents and that has been the situation even with adoption or divorce and remarriage," said Janet Epp Buckingham, the Evangelical Fellowship of Canada's director of law and public policy. "This would be a fairly significant change to the law and it wouldn't be appropriate for the court to do this. You would need to have the full hearings in the provincial parliament and it should be a legislated change."
But outside the courtroom yesterday, the applicant spoke out against the AMF's views.
"To completely misapprehend what it is to be in a conjugal lesbian relationship and to compare that to being somebody's grandmother or to being somebody's step-parent — it was completely out of line," she said.
More obfuscation from the applicant. Granting, for the sake of argument, that the relationship of the two women is "conjugal", the situation of step-parents is an apt analogy, for step-parents are in "conjugal" relationships with biological parents.
"To be fair, they just don't get it."
That's fair? I'd hate to hear what she says when she's being unfair. In any case, we'll see who doesn’t get it.
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