Another sign of the end? Forty percent of British parents want schools to determine their children's bedtimes, according to a poll conducted for the Times Educational Supplement (TES). One in five parents has already given up asserting parental control over bedtimes, allowing children to stay up as late as they feel like. It takes a sleep doctor to point out what should be blindingly obvious.
Dr Irshaad Ebrahim, of the London Sleep Centre, said: "It is an abdication of parents' responsibility for them to expect the school to set bedtimes."
Schoolchildren need nine to 10 hours' sleep a night.
Mick Brookes, the general secretary of the National Association of Head Teachers, tries to be diplomatic: "It's quite bizarre, but on the other hand it could be a cry for help and when schools and parents work together it can be a very effective way of enforcing discipline."
“Cry for help”? How did parents ever manage when they have five or six kids, instead of today’s one or two?
I’m afraid that Mr Brookes’s pitch for partnership between parents and teachers in raising children, well-intentioned though it may be, will enable those parents who have given up parenting to cop out of their responsibilities. Conscientious parents, I would think, are more likely to decline the offer. A case in point: Times of London columnist Jane Shilling says, "Butt out" "Thanks but no thanks".
[I]f anyone is going to form my son’s character, it ought to be me, rather than some teacher, however benevolent and well qualified.
More troubling findings from the TES survey:
Almost seven in 10 children have a television in their bedroom – and their parents are mostly not worried about what they are watching, a TES survey has found.
Most parents say they are not concerned that their children could be watching programmes with violent scenes, bad language or sexual content, and only a quarter use a parental control filter.
There is more concern about what children might be doing on the internet. More than half of parents (55 per cent) use a parental control filter, the study found.
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Childnet, a charity promoting safe internet use, said it was pleased that most families use control filters. But Stephen Carrick-Davies, chief executive, said filters could lull parents into a false sense of security and that it was “not wise” to let children surf the internet in their bedrooms.
I'm with Mr Carrick-Davies. At the very least, children should be required to leave their bedroom doors wide open when surfing the 'net and to position computers so the screen is readily visible from the doorway. (Free advice, FWIW.)
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